Condom Sabotage Isn't A Joke
Written by Amanda Marcotte for RHRealityCheck.org - News, commentary and community for reproductive health and justice.
Without commenting either way on the validity of the accusations against Julian Assange, the founder of Wikileaks who was recently arrested under politically suspicious circumstances for rape charges in Sweden international officials would usually ignore, I want to say that the charges themselves are very serious. I realize it’s hopeless to suggest that pointing out the charges are serious isn’t the same as stating he’s guilty. And that it’s probably hopeless to beg people not to rehash the same tired accusations that are always whipped out against women who file criminal complaints about rape. When someone who has ever done anything that someone else liked is accused of rape, Rape Apology Day is declared, and all common sense is usually thrown out the window. But I beg of you, this article has nothing to do with the validity of the charges or rendering judgment on Wikileaks itself.
This is about the seriousness of the charges and of birth control sabotage. Both of which are being downplayed by interested parties who struggle to grasp both that a man could do something they admire and do something that is immoral and illegal. Not that he did do it (please, people, calm down!). But surely grown-ups can realize that people are complicated, and many can have both good and evil inside them.
The charges in this case, from what has been accurately reported, are rape, sexual molestation, and coercion---including accusations of holding a woman down and having sex with a sleeping woman. But, as Jessica Valenti reports, there has been some information to suggest that one of the women is charging that Assange assaulted her by having sex with her after she withdrew her consent because he reneged on a promise to use a condom. Unsurprisingly, the usual rape apologists stood by their usual claim that if a woman consents to [fill in the blank], then a man has a free pass to force whatever sexual acts he wishes on her. But more surprisingly, some people came up the novel idea that birth control sabotage is not, in and of itself, a good enough reason for a woman to withdraw consent. Read more